I was reasonably calm, however, watching the news earlier today about an emergency landing on the Hudson River near NYC. That pilot - what a mensch! The combination of an experienced crew, the heroics and common decency from the passengers and the rush to rescue everyone by boats already in the water makes the adjective "miraculous" seem insufficient to describe what happened.
I do not know if watching all of this has stopped the in-flight feelings of fear I get. If nothing else, I've got the website I referenced here for future review and will figure out someway, sometime to overcome the worst of my fears.